Same Script, Different Cast

so, this seems to happen to me all the time and i just can't understand why. ok, i meet someone. a really cool guy and then he says, "you know you are really cool and i would like to hang out more and get to know you a little more. can i have your number so we can keep in touch?" of course,i give him my number because if i am talking to him and enjoyin myself, we obviously can talk and i like someone that i can have good conversation with because i am a talker. so, we talk, 2, maybe 3 times and all of a sudden, i don't ever hear from him again. now, you would think that i have a problem, right? yes, of course. maybe i am saying too much. maybe i am not saying enough. maybe a mixture of both depending on what we are talking about, but the same thing tends to happen. i will stop calling also and i will not contact him in any way. the next thing i know, he is blowing up my phone and he is emailing me and, all of a sudden, he wants to talk to me all the time. or, he will see me out and then he will be so sorry that he didn't call me before and he wants to call me again, if that's ok with me. ok, why does this happen? i don't think i say too much. i am just me. when it comes to talking about relationships, i will tell you want i feel. if you ask me a question, be prepared for the answer or else don't ask it. for example, question: what are you looking for in a man? answer: well, that is kind of a broad question, but i guess i can sum it all up by saying that first, i am assuming that the man in question is someone that i am talking to and getting to know and may have romantic feelings for. second, the main thing i look for is honesty. i want someone to be straight forward with me. i am a straight forward person. i will tell you if you do something i don't like, but i will also tell you if you do something i am happy with. i am no holds barred. now, for the man that says he wants to get to know me and who i am, that should be refreshing to know that i am going to be honest with you and all i want from you is to be honest with me. but the next thing i know, he is closed...just like a clam shell. now, why are men so scared of women? that is the question i want to know. and on the other hand, i want to know why this "challenge" just makes me want to conquer this man? when i have conquered him (which i have sometimes done), i don't want him anymore anyway. why am i so attracted to the thrill of the chase? and why do men feel like they have to be so elusive? it makes absolutely no sense to me and i don't think i will ever understand it and i have to tell you, honestly, i am getting really tired of it!